Homuhgah, just answered so many "Ask Rachel" questions. Sorry if yours was unanswered! I get asked so many similar questions, so I hope someone else's question made you feel less alone and my answer gave you some comfort:
We know social media is noisy, but what is also is overlooked as noise are cheap opinions and regurgitated reactions. Let's put a little more thought and soul in the things we say and do this year. Stop the noise. Stop comparing.